This Christmas: When Believing Seems Impossible

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This Christmas meets your heart with dread, insecurity and brokenness. The twinkling lights bring you back to a place you can no longer go. The star at the top of the Christmas tree seems like it is pointing to nowhere. Hope, you feel right now is gone.

Christmas is not the easiest time of the year for many of my friends. Some just stand idle as this season begins after a sudden loss of a dear loved one. Others have family they simply cannot touch due to the incredible, separating distance. Some of my friends have lost their financial security this year. I have three dear friends that are fighting for their very lives.

How do you approach Christmas when believing in miracles simply seems impossible?

Can you put your shaking hand in mine as we meet at the manger?

[tweetthis]How do you approach Christmas when believing in miracles simply seems impossible? [/tweetthis]

After Mary learned about her new calling in life, she immediately rushed to perhaps the only person she thought would understand the message she had been given. She ran to Elizabeth who was miraculously pregnant herself. Even if you have read these words before, stick with me. There is Truth packed in here that will change the way you look at Christmas:

Elizabeth gave a glad cry and exclaimed to Mary, “God has blessed you above all women, and your child is blessed. Why am I so honored, that the mother of my Lord should visit me? When I heard your greeting, the baby in my womb jumped for joy. You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what he said.” (Luke 1:42-45 NLT)

Did you catch that last phrase? According to  this passage…

Mary was not blessed because she was chosen by God. (God can choose us, but we must be willing to follow.)

Mary was not blessed because she prayed more or had more of the Scriptures memorized. (Knowledge is not faith.)

Mary was not blessed because she carried the Son of God for 9 months. (But no doubt this experience changed her life.)

No. God blessed Mary because of her willingness to simply trust and obey.

You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what he said.

Elizabeth had every right saying these heart hesitating words because her husband failed to believe God would give them a son at their old age. He failed to believe in miracles. He had given up hope. The thought that God still wanted to bless him with a son was no longer a dream tucked deep in his heart. Instead, it was a source of deep sorrow and pain.

But Mary believed the Lord would do what He said.

As Joseph planned to divorce her quietly…Mary believed the Lord would do what He said.

As she rode the camel across rough terrain well into her pregnancy…Mary believed the Lord would do what He said.

As she looked into the darkness of the stable that holy night…Mary believed the Lord would do what He said. 

As she swaddled the newborn King and placed Him where animals had just eaten…Mary believed the Lord would do what He said. 

Can you just imagine the emotions ripping through this mamma’s heart that night as she looked around at the cattle hooves and sheep-filled stable? How is this our Messiah? Why would God choose this entrance? What have I signed-up for?

Yet Mary trusted.

From the buckets of hay in the stable, to the buckets of water at a wedding feast, to the buckets of blood at the cross, Mary believed the Lord would do what He said.

Do you?

I know we say we do, but your thoughts, your emotions and your actions share your faith much louder than your words ever will.

Sometimes, you need a friend to grab your shaking hand and allow you time to kneel at the manger. Here, you can look into His eyes and reclaim His promises. Here at the manger you can look into the eyes of a mother that believed in miracles. Look into the eyes of a mother that simply could not give up on the promise God gave to her.

And you know what?

That same Abba has given you so many abounding promises too, available for you to claim, own and find rest for your aching heart this Christmas. Even in the midst of shattered dreams, broken relationships and a feeding trough for God’s Son, we can believe that the Lord will do what He said.

He has done it before. He is doing it again.

[tweetthis]From the stable to the cross, Mary believed the Lord would do what He said. Do you? [/tweetthis]

Friends, put your name in these passages today:

Whom have you in heaven, Bethany, but Me? You desire Me more than anything on earth. Bethany, your health may fail, and your spirit may grow weak, but I will remain the strength of your heart; I am yours forever. (Psalms 73:25, 26 NLT)

Bethany, can anything ever separate you from My love? Does it mean I no longer love you if you have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is yours through Me, I love you. (Romans 8:35, 37 NLT)

 

When believing in the miracles that surround Christmas seems impossible, simply kneel at the manger, look into Mary’s eyes and remember, YOU can believe the Lord will do what He says.

 

Bethany is an ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach (Christian Coach Institute Graduate), Motivational and Inspirational Speaker, mentor to women and an author. Bethany defines herself as a child of God who loves to use her passion for change to inspire others. She has overcome disabilities, wading through the trials and rewards of marriage and motherhood. She enjoys being a wife to Steve for 10 years and mother to three boys (ages 7, 5 and 2). She is a double brain cancer survivor, a 9 year veteran in the field of youth and children's ministry and has published poetry, featured blog posts for numerous ministry websites and children's ministry curriculum contributions. Bethany is currently working on her first book to be released this Fall as well as various freelancing projects. Bethany always welcomes new coaching clients and speaking opportunities!

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20 thoughts on “This Christmas: When Believing Seems Impossible

  1. I totally get what you are saying here! We are in this type of a season right now where continuing to simply trust Yahweh for His provision is paramount. My husband just separated from the Navy and we have now been in a season of unemployment for 10 months. But, Yahweh has provided for our needs, met us where we are, and is taking us through step by step. Trust is hard, but it sure is simple. Thanks for sharing your heart on this critical component of faithful living =0). I couldn’t agree more!

    • Julie – Our family has walked through that unemployment journey. It’s so hard, confusing and just plain lonely during the holidays. Praying for you all right now. Please check back in later and update me, okay?

  2. I’m so thankful that “Mary was not blessed because she prayed more or had more of the Scriptures memorized. (Knowledge is not faith.)” – that kind of overwhelms me to even think about. If knowledge and competitive “doing” were required for God’s blessing I would be in so much trouble!

    I’m so thankful that Mary was blessed simply for following in obedience and faith.

  3. I loved all of this, but especially this: “From the buckets of hay in the stable, to the buckets of water at a wedding feast, to the buckets of blood at the cross, Mary believed the Lord would do what He said.”

    There’s so much hope in this post.

  4. What a beautiful and important message, Bethany! It is so true, we will be blessed when we obey the Lord — and all the more when we truly trust Him. He is, after all, the Almighty God. He is greater than any of the storms or battles we face. Thank you so much for sharing this, and for the hope that this post brings!

  5. Bethany, Thank you for these encouraging words. You’re right, there are many hurting this year. Coming to Him in faith, trusting His love and believing He is able. I love personalizing His promises. So much to lift our hearts here. Thank you for linking up at Counting My Blessings!

    • I almost never posted this writing. It was one of those passages I was chewing on for the past few Christmas celebrations. Looking at it now, glad God gave me the courage to share it finally this year!