Step Out & Thrive Ministries with Bethany Boring
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#Empowered

According to Webster, the definition for empowered is:

tr.v. em·pow·ered, em·pow·er·ing, em·pow·ers
1. To invest with power, especially legal power or official authority. See Synonyms at authorize.
2. To equip or supply with an ability; enable: “Computers … empower students to become intellectual explorers” (Edward B. Fiske).

 

Have you ever been in a blackout situation with a toddler? I remember a time a few years back while here in Florida, we were bracing for yet another storm. It was during our “rainy season” so I was completely caught-up in the drill. 

Car windows rolled-up…Check.

Garage door closed…Check.

Computer unplugged…Check. 

TV unplugged…Oooops. 

On this particular day, I had allowed my older kids to watch a bit of tv while I washed the dishes. It only took a second for my brain to connect the dots before it occurred….I heard the thunder and not a second later silence followed by shrieks of terror. 

The car windows were indeed secured.

The house was not flooding because the garage door was shut tight. 

The computer had not been electrified. 

But the tv…my kids source of entertainment for the moment had been zapped by the power outage (temporary power outage mind you). 

You would have thought Elmo had died. Yes…it indeed was that bad friends. 

You and I both know that our tv would return eventually, once the electricity supply had been corrected…but try explaining that to a 4 year-old and a 2 year-old. To them, life as they knew it had ended and thus, they wanted to make my life end for the next 42.5 minutes until the power returned. 

Fun times! 

Yet, there have been many times in my life I think I can make it through life just fine and completely forget my power source. I forget that “apart from Him, I can do nothing” (John 15:5). It’s in these times that God ever-so gently seems to get my attention by a storm that usually lands me in the dark momentarily, until I find the right Connection in Him again. 

Ever been there? 

The past 3 years have been incredibly stormy for me…

Battling brain cancer

High-risk pregnancy 

Losing my job

Walking away from our house

Somewhere in that time frame I started wondering if things were going to change. It seemed as if every road I tried ended-up in another dead-end. It wasn’t necessarily that I was plugged-in to the wrong power source, but it was the fact that I wasn’t ready to let this God, this enabling power to really make the needed changes in my life. Call it trust issues if you will, but there is no worse place to be – connected to God but fail to trust His promises to be of any real value to your life. 

But…that’s where I was…

Things have since changed and I have been able to humbly bring my entire heart before God and trust in Him in a way I truly never thought possible. No longer do I feel like I’m dangling from the power socket…but fully engaged and making changes I know He has called me to make. 

One of these changes I am actively engaging in is my battle to get healthy. Ever since my remission began, I’ve been in this awkward state of balancing between wondering if I’m really ok and living my second chance. With three kids now, it just seemed easy enough grabbing the “ready-made” shakes I would drink during my treatment…for some reason, these weight-loss shakes stayed down (believe me…I saw these little cans as my lifeline most days). Because my weight had dropped so fast, the team simply wanted something, anything staying down. I went off of this after my surprise pregnancy, but soon after Matthew’s birth, I found myself back in the same grind. One shake for breakfast. One shake for lunch. 

Somewhere I quit enjoying my food.

Somewhere I accepted the fact that it was ok to let a little can of mixed-up chemicals control 2 out of every 3 precious meal times.

Somewhere I gave-up my right to think for myself.

Somewhere I settled into being a halfway hanging socket…seeing God there, but not even trusting Him enough to believe He has given me the power to control what I eat. 

 

Truthfully, I had no clue what I was even doing until a few days ago when my oldest son asked why I still drank the same shakes I did while I was sick. He looked concerned. He has seen his mom go through hell and back and his mom was keeping the reminder of that pain in her hands for 2 meals out of the day. 

Yes…it hit me hard too.

When we trust God enough to allow Him to make the needed changes in our life, it indeed empowers us. Though the initial power surge may feel uncomfortable, it makes us realize how truly powerful our God is. The best part is…He has given us the power to understand that too. 

I know I’ve shared it before, but I don’t care – I’m sharing it again (it’s my passage for 2014…so you will be seeing it consistently this year!…)

Bethany, I will make My home in your heart as you trust in Me. Your roots will grow down into My love and keep you strong.  And Bethany, you have the power to understand, as all My people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep My love is.  May you experience My love, though it is too great to understand fully. Then Bethany you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from Me. (Ephesians 3:17-19 NLT)

Did you catch the power words there? Our God is not going to simply hold our hand and say, “Now look what I can do!” Oh no…if that’s the god you are connected to, you may want to give the passage above another quick read. The God I’ve been reading about and putting my trust in goes beyond simply showing His power through love…He chooses to display His power in us and through us. You can’t be hanging loosely into the power outlet to receive that type of charge! 

So…as this new Proverbs 31 Ministries Online Bible Study kicks-off with Made To Crave by Lysa Terkeurst, I have made the following changes – 

– My goal is to eat 3 healthy meals a day…not in a can! 

– I want to get in 10,000 steps a day (more playing with my kids the better! They make me go!!)

– Water is my drink of choice (this is not new for me…but my kids have really taken on this new challenge and LOVE their “water cups” that we refill throughout the day). 

My first day eating all 3 meals was today. Granted, they were small meals…but wow…what a sense of freedom! Oh…so this is what it means to really live! Hello second chance! 

Our adventure begins! Plug into the real, true Abba God and His promises. Make changes He presents to you. Trust Him. Be empowered and live a life worth living. 

About the Author Bethany

I am an ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach (Christian Coach Institute Graduate), Motivational and Inspirational Speaker, mentor to women and an author. I am an author, blogger, ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach, Motivational and Inspirational Speaker and encourager. More than anything, I define myself as a child of God. I simply desire to use my passion for thriving (getting every single drop out of life) to inspire others. I have overcome disabilities (coloboma vision-loss, severe hearing-loss and a small right arm). I am a double brain cancer survivor. I use the story God has given me to move beyond what I am surviving and thrive in His promises. I enjoy being a wife to Steve for over 12 years and mother to three boys (ages 9, 7 and 4).

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86 comments
senkyoushi says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing. Your analogy about the power source is one I will carry with me today.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks so much…my kids help me see so many apologies ๐Ÿ™‚

senkyoushi says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing. Your analogy about the power source is one I will carry with me today.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks so much…my kids help me see so many apologies ๐Ÿ™‚

bloggerlovestheking says January 23, 2014

Great blog today. Thanks for sharing. Wow such trials, but what an overcomer you are. I’m trying those 10,000 steps also with my pedometer and watching what I eat – no diet – just healthy choices. Debbie W. (OBS Volunteer Team Leader/Blog Home Team)

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! I’ve just started using a friend’s FitBit and it has been SUCH a motivator! It’s made me realize how many steps I get just playing with my boys ๐Ÿ™‚

bloggerlovestheking says January 23, 2014

Great blog today. Thanks for sharing. Wow such trials, but what an overcomer you are. I’m trying those 10,000 steps also with my pedometer and watching what I eat – no diet – just healthy choices. Debbie W. (OBS Volunteer Team Leader/Blog Home Team)

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! I’ve just started using a friend’s FitBit and it has been SUCH a motivator! It’s made me realize how many steps I get just playing with my boys ๐Ÿ™‚

Tami Barrett says January 23, 2014

All I can say is WOW!! What an inspiration you are. I look forward to seeing more of your blogs as we go through this study.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Tami. I just like sharing my adventure (sounds better than journey!) and reading others too! Love these Blog Hops! I learn SO much!!!

Tami Barrett says January 23, 2014

All I can say is WOW!! What an inspiration you are. I look forward to seeing more of your blogs as we go through this study.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Tami. I just like sharing my adventure (sounds better than journey!) and reading others too! Love these Blog Hops! I learn SO much!!!

Vivian H says January 23, 2014

I LOVE how God used the power outage to teach you about you and His relationship! When we actively seek Him, we find Him in our everyday, ordinary lives. Even when we aren’t plugged into Him, He is there waiting for the little light bulb to go off over our heads ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you for sharing your struggles! May God’s blessings be with you!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Love the way you worded this!!! Made me smile! Thanks!!!

Vivian H says January 23, 2014

I LOVE how God used the power outage to teach you about you and His relationship! When we actively seek Him, we find Him in our everyday, ordinary lives. Even when we aren’t plugged into Him, He is there waiting for the little light bulb to go off over our heads ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you for sharing your struggles! May God’s blessings be with you!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Love the way you worded this!!! Made me smile! Thanks!!!

cindylo40 says January 23, 2014

Love your blog spoke right to my heart. I need to be fully connected to God. You are an inspiration.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks for your words of encouragement! I love sharing my adventure while walking along this journey with others! ๐Ÿ™‚

cindylo40 says January 23, 2014

Love your blog spoke right to my heart. I need to be fully connected to God. You are an inspiration.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks for your words of encouragement! I love sharing my adventure while walking along this journey with others! ๐Ÿ™‚

Mary Bankert says January 23, 2014

Thank you, you continue to inspire me each and every day. Hugs my friend!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Awwww…I missed your comment at first! Ha!!! Thank you Mary! Shout out to Group 44!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Mary Bankert says January 23, 2014

Thank you, you continue to inspire me each and every day. Hugs my friend!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Awwww…I missed your comment at first! Ha!!! Thank you Mary! Shout out to Group 44!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Audrey says January 23, 2014

Thank you for your blog. A reminder to stay plugged in is exactly what I needed to hear today and every day. My prayers are with you and your family. We are all blessed through the lessons you are learning in your second chance.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Audrey! Love having this chance to connect with you!!

Audrey says January 23, 2014

Thank you for your blog. A reminder to stay plugged in is exactly what I needed to hear today and every day. My prayers are with you and your family. We are all blessed through the lessons you are learning in your second chance.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Audrey! Love having this chance to connect with you!!

throughmyeyes4893 says January 23, 2014

I appreciate you sharing from your heart and helping me to remember that being healthy isn’t just about those of us who want to lose weight. We all want to be healthy physically and spiritually and we are all in different stages/places. I’m so thankful for this Made to Crave experience to meet others who are ready to #CraveGod more than anything else. Prayers to you for your journey! Keep up the good work. ๐Ÿ™‚

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! I did think about how just incredible it is that there are so many different backgrounds, struggles and stories coming together for this Made To Crave study! I’m SO enjoying knowing the fact that I’m not alone and that this adventure is so much bigger than I ever imagined!!

      Cynthia says January 23, 2014

      It is amazing how we are all coming from different locations, different struggles, different ages–but we are all alike in that we all want to be closer to God.

      throughmyeyes4893 says January 24, 2014

      Isn’t it fabulous?!

throughmyeyes4893 says January 23, 2014

I appreciate you sharing from your heart and helping me to remember that being healthy isn’t just about those of us who want to lose weight. We all want to be healthy physically and spiritually and we are all in different stages/places. I’m so thankful for this Made to Crave experience to meet others who are ready to #CraveGod more than anything else. Prayers to you for your journey! Keep up the good work. ๐Ÿ™‚

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! I did think about how just incredible it is that there are so many different backgrounds, struggles and stories coming together for this Made To Crave study! I’m SO enjoying knowing the fact that I’m not alone and that this adventure is so much bigger than I ever imagined!!

      Cynthia says January 23, 2014

      It is amazing how we are all coming from different locations, different struggles, different ages–but we are all alike in that we all want to be closer to God.

      throughmyeyes4893 says January 24, 2014

      Isn’t it fabulous?!

Maggie says January 23, 2014

Thank you so much for sharing. May our Lord bless your efforts in changes today.

Maggie says January 23, 2014

Thank you so much for sharing. May our Lord bless your efforts in changes today.

Paige says January 23, 2014

Amazing! Bethany, what an encourager you are!

Paige says January 23, 2014

Amazing! Bethany, what an encourager you are!

Megan Kincheloe, OBS FB Group Leader says January 23, 2014

Thank you so much for your post! Your comment really resonated with me “I forgot who my power source is.” Wow…I have been there more than I care to admit! You were such a source of encouragement for me today. Thank you!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! Great to connect with everyone…there is so much POWER in sharing/relating to others stories!

Megan Kincheloe, OBS FB Group Leader says January 23, 2014

Thank you so much for your post! Your comment really resonated with me “I forgot who my power source is.” Wow…I have been there more than I care to admit! You were such a source of encouragement for me today. Thank you!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks! Great to connect with everyone…there is so much POWER in sharing/relating to others stories!

Kacy says January 23, 2014

Beautiful Post. Especially love the verses you shared!!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Kacy! That passage was one God showed me while at the Healing For The Nations Retreat…it has forever changed the way I “plug-in” to God.

Kacy says January 23, 2014

Beautiful Post. Especially love the verses you shared!!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Thanks Kacy! That passage was one God showed me while at the Healing For The Nations Retreat…it has forever changed the way I “plug-in” to God.

Jamie Rogers says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing! I love how you compare how you are connected to God as being plugged in. You gave me a lot to think about and ponder. Gods blessings to you.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    I am a thinker…my mind is always going (that’s good and bad by the way!). I’m finding the more I purposefully stop and look at His Word during the day, the more open I am to really seeing His working in my life. It’s been really neat just living this new life going…”Ooohhhh….what’s God gonna show me today?!” ๐Ÿ™‚

Jamie Rogers says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing! I love how you compare how you are connected to God as being plugged in. You gave me a lot to think about and ponder. Gods blessings to you.

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    I am a thinker…my mind is always going (that’s good and bad by the way!). I’m finding the more I purposefully stop and look at His Word during the day, the more open I am to really seeing His working in my life. It’s been really neat just living this new life going…”Ooohhhh….what’s God gonna show me today?!” ๐Ÿ™‚

Lori-Ann Uber says January 23, 2014

Awesome word! Thank you so much for sharing — trials & tribulations make our testimony — PRAISE GOD for your tesimony!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Love your words…but the trails are only a small part of the testimony…it’s how God uses these crazy, hard, insecure events to chase after us and bring us back into His arms…so many people have stories that only God can write and that’s what I hope this blog can be! :). It’s all about Him!

Lori-Ann Uber says January 23, 2014

Awesome word! Thank you so much for sharing — trials & tribulations make our testimony — PRAISE GOD for your tesimony!

    abbasshoulders says January 23, 2014

    Love your words…but the trails are only a small part of the testimony…it’s how God uses these crazy, hard, insecure events to chase after us and bring us back into His arms…so many people have stories that only God can write and that’s what I hope this blog can be! :). It’s all about Him!

Wilma says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing your ongoing journey with our Lord and Savior. He is faithful!
Staying “plugged in” along with you!
Getting to know you and loving you, sister! โ™ฅ

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    It has been great getting to know you too…going to check out your blog later tonight!!!!

Wilma says January 23, 2014

Thanks for sharing your ongoing journey with our Lord and Savior. He is faithful!
Staying “plugged in” along with you!
Getting to know you and loving you, sister! โ™ฅ

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    It has been great getting to know you too…going to check out your blog later tonight!!!!

Laura says January 24, 2014

Thank you for sharing. I love your verse for 2014 and look forward to taking this journey as well.

Laura says January 24, 2014

Thank you for sharing. I love your verse for 2014 and look forward to taking this journey as well.

Shannon says January 24, 2014

Awesome post – and i love the way you personalized your Ephesians verse. Thank you for reminding me to not limit the power of God!

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    Thanks for the encouragement Shannon! Personalizing scripture came from a previous OBS and the idea has helped me SO much.

Shannon says January 24, 2014

Awesome post – and i love the way you personalized your Ephesians verse. Thank you for reminding me to not limit the power of God!

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    Thanks for the encouragement Shannon! Personalizing scripture came from a previous OBS and the idea has helped me SO much.

Travlnbard (@Travlnbard) says January 24, 2014

Your words seem to have come directly from my life. Especially these:
“It wasn’t necessarily that I was plugged-in to the wrong power source, but it was the fact that I wasn’t ready to let this God, this enabling power to really make the needed changes in my life. Call it trust issues if you will, but there is no worse place to be โ€“ connected to God but fail to trust His promises to be of any real value to your life.”

Thank you for being so vulnerable and showing me that I am not alone. Now to simply trust in God. Easier said than done.

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    Easier said than done FOR REAL!!!

    No way have I got it all figured out…that’s why I love these studies because you realize nobody has it all figured out! BUT we can encourage one another towards the goals God has placed in our lives (and we do this through blog hop every week!). ๐Ÿ™‚

Travlnbard (@Travlnbard) says January 24, 2014

Your words seem to have come directly from my life. Especially these:
“It wasn’t necessarily that I was plugged-in to the wrong power source, but it was the fact that I wasn’t ready to let this God, this enabling power to really make the needed changes in my life. Call it trust issues if you will, but there is no worse place to be โ€“ connected to God but fail to trust His promises to be of any real value to your life.”

Thank you for being so vulnerable and showing me that I am not alone. Now to simply trust in God. Easier said than done.

    abbasshoulders says January 24, 2014

    Easier said than done FOR REAL!!!

    No way have I got it all figured out…that’s why I love these studies because you realize nobody has it all figured out! BUT we can encourage one another towards the goals God has placed in our lives (and we do this through blog hop every week!). ๐Ÿ™‚

Marieke Worm says January 24, 2014

Thank you so much for sharing! Our God will give you the power! So proud of you!
Lots of love and empowerment from Marieke from the Netherlands!

Marieke Worm says January 24, 2014

Thank you so much for sharing! Our God will give you the power! So proud of you!
Lots of love and empowerment from Marieke from the Netherlands!

dummka says January 24, 2014

Thanks for sharing… There is a lot to think… and you are a hero to me!

dummka says January 24, 2014

Thanks for sharing… There is a lot to think… and you are a hero to me!

diana157 says January 25, 2014

Bethany, I loved your blog and feel encouraged.blessings

diana157 says January 25, 2014

Bethany, I loved your blog and feel encouraged.blessings

rcjarcja says January 25, 2014

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story, it was a good analogy. God Bless you with power to keep your 3 meals a day going! Stay HimPowered! ๐Ÿ™‚

rcjarcja says January 25, 2014

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story, it was a good analogy. God Bless you with power to keep your 3 meals a day going! Stay HimPowered! ๐Ÿ™‚

Cheryl Rausch says January 26, 2014

I am a fairly new Christian. I accepted Jesus Christ into my heart about two years ago. I knew I needed to change my life so I went to church and studied the bible. I tried my hardest to be what I thought God wanted me to be, but the whole time I was trying to do it on my own and I failed again and again. I too have trust issues. Your post has left me in tears. I know that I cannot change without relying on God. I need to live a healthier life but I also find myself craving for worldly things over God.

Cheryl Rausch says January 26, 2014

I am a fairly new Christian. I accepted Jesus Christ into my heart about two years ago. I knew I needed to change my life so I went to church and studied the bible. I tried my hardest to be what I thought God wanted me to be, but the whole time I was trying to do it on my own and I failed again and again. I too have trust issues. Your post has left me in tears. I know that I cannot change without relying on God. I need to live a healthier life but I also find myself craving for worldly things over God.

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